Author: Eva

Categories: Connection & Lifestyle, Inspiration Posted on

A new map for love, support, and receiving

Many sensitive women don’t realize they’re relating to love, support, and success through a very old nervous system map. 

A map that was created when they were too young to know that the level of care they received wasn’t necessarily the level that is available to them now.

If your early experience involved inconsistency, emotional unavailability, or carrying more than a child should have to carry, a younger part have learned: maybe this is as good as it gets.

That experience isn’t only a belief, it lives in your body as a felt sense of what life allows. … Continue readingA new map for love, support, and receiving

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When you want more, but a part of you doesn’t feel safe yet

You want more from your life. More love, intimacy, support, more space for your work to grow and be recognized.

But what usually happens somewhere along the way is that the wanting slowly turns into pressure and panic.

Suddenly the same woman who felt inspired a week ago is lying on the couch exhausted, avoiding messages, doubting herself, procrastinating, or wanting to disappear somewhere where she doesn’t have to face life for a while.

One of the most common things I see in capable women is this cycle of expansion (you can envision, feel, almost touch what you want) followed by collapse. … Continue readingWhen you want more, but a part of you doesn’t feel safe yet

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Letting Yourself Be Seen by the Right People and Opportunities 

I see so many kind, empathic, ambitious women waiting to be chosen by people who were never truly available for them.

Over time, this teaches their nervous system that love must be earned through patience, being overly understanding, or making themselves smaller. 

And often, that same pattern is showing up in their work too, where they feel like they constantly have to prove that they and their skills are enough instead of them being naturally recognized, appreciated and valued. … Continue readingLetting Yourself Be Seen by the Right People and Opportunities